Author: happyologist
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The Verbally Abusive Relationship
by Patricia Evans This book helped me even when I was deep in a fog in my first marriage and still oblivious to everything I have learned since. I have a great story about practicing techniques from it to confront my first husband. After all his tactics to derail conversations and wriggle away from truth…
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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
by Lindsay Gibson This is where it all begins and everything stems from here – your childhood training to play a role, your beliefs about your self and the world, your relationship patterns. Getting clarity about this stuff accelerates allllll the rest of your learning, self-work, deprogramming, reprogramming of your subconscious, and healing. If you…
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THE GLIMMER STORY
There is a very special planet where a very rare kind of people live. These people have something in their personalities and souls called “glimmers.” Glimmers are greatly prized among the people of this planet. The glimmers are visible in each person. They sparkle softly. Most people on this planet have 2 or 3 glimmers. …
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Two Cool, Extremely Helpful Things
THE BRIDGE Below is a link to Edwin H. Friedman’s famous and WONDERFULLY HELPFUL fable, The Bridge. I have never seen anything as brilliantly clear and helpful, about the guilt that traps us in relationships where we give and sacrifice endlessly. The spiritually/ethically aligned perspective in this fable has set free many Beautiful Soul givers.…
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Your Favourite Books and Movies About Revenge
Please submit your favorites so we can add them to the collection.
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Fun Stories About Real Life Revenge
Disclaimer: We do not condone vandalism. So don’t do that, okay? But feel free to send us fun revenge stories and if they involve mild vandalism, we’ll add a disclaimer. We absolutely are against physically harming or even touching a person with intent to hurt them. The Mischief Club is about harmless, cathartic fun, only.…
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Fun Ideas for Creative Revenge
Please send us your favorites so we can add them to the collection. We will never suggest ideas that involve vandalism. But see Disclaimer under “Fun Stories About Revenge.” See also “Your Favourite Revenge Fantasies.” Cake With Cheaters’ Texts If you discover your partner is cheating on you, say nothing (yet). Have a cake made…
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Your Favourite Revenge Fantasies
We absolutely condone releasing healthy justified anger through cathartic revenge fantasies, so GO FOR IT! The sky’s the limit! The more wicked the better. Humour is GREAT. We LOVE laughing at the Bad Guys (male AND female). Hilarious, eviscerating humiliations of the Bad Guys are GREATLY APPRECIATED!
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EXCERPT FROM “PARENTING WITH HUMOR”: Three Steps for Turning Frustration Into Laughter
I am not a parenting expert but over the years, as a life skills facilitator, etc. (see ABOUT section: Hopefully-Impressive Conventional Credentials), I have learned communication skills which I sometimes remember to use in my interactions with my child. Of course… in real life… things don’t always go like they do in a textbook and…
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HOW TO STOP THINKING ABOUT YOUR TOXIC EX AND THE HELL THEY PUT YOU THROUGH
I created this technique in the first year after my Narcissist husband and I separated. One day I got sick of always feeling sad or angry, thinking about things my ex had done. I realized it was like I was letting my ex CONTINUE to make me suffer every day, EVERY MINUTE that I thought…