Category: Writings & Snippets

“Angry people want you to see how powerful they are. Loving people want you to see how powerful YOU are.” – Chief Red Eagle Sometimes loving, normally supportive, empowering people suddenly become hostile. What’s up with that? It can be a shock when a normally nice person suddenly behaves in a way that is hurtful…

What I realized several years ago is that while we accept a person exactly the way they are, it does not mean we have to live with them if they make us unhappy.  My whole life I was a magnet for broken men. I wanted to heal them, help them, give everything to them.  Years…

My theory is that the same “feminine,” intuitive ability women have to be understanding about people’s emotions, in the hands of a Narcissist* woman, becomes a weapon to mind-fuck a man to the point of total annihilation of his soul.  Hide this evil weapon in the body of a woman who looks sweet, pretty and…

If you have no immediate power to affect a situation, it’s okay to step away from it.  It doesn’t mean you don’t care.  You can learn all about it after your mental break, when you feel stronger emotionally. Ideally, you will learn there are constructive actions you can take. However, if there is NOTHING you…

I have noticed that it’s only the people who behave “appropriately” and act like they have a stick up their butt, who want others to behave like they, too, have a stick up their butt. EVERYONE else would prefer that you just BE YOURSELF. I know, I know, I sound like your mother. But it’s…

You cannot control how people respond to your words and actions.  You can only control what YOU do.  You can do the right thing.  If you’re not sure what the right thing is, check with a therapist. If you’re a Giver and the other person is making you feel guilt, check with a therapist. Figure…

This is going to sound corny, but when I was eleven years old, I read “A Little Princess” and decided to be like Sara, the main character.  She was kind to everyone and did the right thing in every situation, no matter what. I distinctly remember the feeling, many times in my childhood, of doing…

Like so many of us, Tony Robbins had a horrific childhood.BUT, he did something different from what a lot of people do.Other people (me included, for a long, long time), tell the story of their terrible childhood often, over the years. They think about it often. Because of the story of their childhood so often…

Shallow people use shallow things to impress other shallow people. Let us ignore their circus and go live with joy and meaning.